Monday, February 13, 2017

La Saint-Valentin demain

D'une manière ou d'une autre, je sens l'envie irrépressible d'écrire maintenant. Peut-être, c'est parce que j'ai essayé de terminer 22 ans de solitude à la Saint-Valentin, afin que personne ne me juge plus pour ne pas avoir une copine. Mais, c'était dommage. Je n'ai pas ressenti le désir depuis longtemps, et c'était la première fois que j'ai demandé à une fille si elle était prise. Pourtant, la réponse était «oui». 

Franchement, je suis content d'être seul. Avec ma personnalité, je ne ressens pas le besoin d'une copine. Mon monde d'esprit est assez grand, et je suis toujours en train de l'agrandir, en apprenant les langues étrangères et en lisant la littérature. Néanmoins, j'ai assez d'être jugé par les autres pour ne pas avoir une copine, et je ressens toujours une tristesse inexplicable quand ils parlent des relations amoureuses. 

À ce moment, il est 10 minutes jusqu’à la Saint-Valentin, et la solitude continuera. Mais, pour l'instant, ça me suffit d'avoir une copine imaginaire que les filles typiques ne peuvent pas remplacer. En même temps, je me souhaite bonne chance dans l'avenir.

Sunday, July 24, 2016

La Haine contre mon Université

Demain, c'est l'évaluation diagnostique. En fait, je ne sais pas si je suis prêt à rejoindre la classe de français 5. Mais, il y a encore beaucoup de modules à finir et je dois sauter quelques modules si il est possible. Il est encore le temps pour choisir les modules et les problèmes reviennent. Je ne peux pas choisir un module parce que il tombe en même temps que un autre. Je ne peux pas choisir plus de 5 modules avant Round C, même si je dois finir les modules avant je pars en France. 

De plus, je ne pouvais pas aller aux camps d'intégration parce que il y avait tant de garçons. Je ne pouvais pas entrer un RC pour quelque raison étrange, bien que j'aie postulé avant certains résidents. Quelle impartialité! Donc, je pense que **S est la pire école à laquelle je suis allé et je voudrais vraiment dire que je viens d'une autre université. Bien sûr, j'ai rencontré certains étudiants et professeurs géniaux, mais il reste beaucoup de personnels d'administration qui ne méritent pas leurs emplois. C'est une chance que je puisse partir de cette école pour deux ans.

Sunday, February 14, 2016

言葉で表せない不安

最近、ある知り合いが独身クラブを卒業した。彼は容姿が平凡で、頭脳明晰でもない。しかし、彼が僕の先に彼女ができたんだ。もちろん、これは意外なことでもない。成績の差に同じく、やる気の差が起因になっている。恋人の出会いと言えば、映画のように男女が奇跡的にお互いに出会うことではない。現実はより複雑だ。まず、誰かがこの変なルールを決めたんだ。男子と女子はまるで捕食者と被食者のようだ。もちろん、このルールに従う必要がない。他の方法で知り合ったカップルもいる。だが、捕食者のところに来る被食者がめったにないことは自然の規律だ。お腹を満たそうとすれば、獲物を探さねばならない。それで、問題が現れた。捕食者として、一方ではやる気満々のやつがいる。他方では僕のような獲物にビビる者もいる。正確に言えば、視線を合わせたらなんとなく強烈な不安を感じる。何かを話そうとするけど、頭が急に空白になって言葉が出ない。前者は先に満腹するだろう。

Tuesday, August 11, 2015

下一个循环

已经有一年多没在这里写文章了。也许是因为我无忧无虑,也许是因为生活中缺少了前些日子那些精彩与挫折。例如在德光岛上的坎坷,或是高中时期对他人的失望。不管怎么说,这些自由且寂寞的日子即将结束。

明天大学开学,我将要面临崭新的人生。如往年一样,我总是为了人生中的改变感到不安。再进高中之前,我总是想到要面对A水准的压力,认为那会是我人生中最痛苦的两年。可是,结果刚好相反。不过,我觉得我会迈入一个《我的朋友很少》的时代。大学,在表面上似乎有许多机会让人们建立新的人际关系,夯实学生之间的友谊。但在过去的三个月里,我却觉得人们之间的关系远远比小学、中学时期的淡薄。我不知道我是不是想多了,但是从朋友们的经历来看,我的担忧并不是无缘无故的。更何况,为了不沦落为光棍一族,我也面临着在两年内找到一个女友的压力。可是,在工程系里,机会又是如此的渺茫。当然,一想到这些都是第一世界的问题,总是能让我感到轻松。只希望在接下来的日子里,会多几分精彩,少几分寂寞。

Friday, February 28, 2014

It's kinda tragic that when you grow up you tend to read between the lines.

Sunday, September 8, 2013

Reality is just so damn disappointing, and that's despite the fact that I've already accepted economics.

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

When will I ever get rid of my inferiority complex?

Saturday, August 10, 2013

Ardour

There's something that I've been telling myself. During my time in NS, I should be accomplishing all that I didn't get a chance to do during my school years. The initial 4 months of "rush to wait and wait to rush" has made me pretty fed up with the Singapore army. Why is it that before every activity we always have to gather 1 hour beforehand and go through all those redundant conducting briefs? I somewhat convinced myself that it was not worth the time to "make something out of my NS life" and ended up pretty satisfied with my current vocation. However, I realized that even with so much time, half of my time is spent idling and playing computer games. This is perhaps due to the fact that there are limits to the human brain. I can't read more than ~15 pages of bridge squeezes complete in 1 day. Looking back at my 5 hours of studying each day before A levels, this is still a something reasonable. However, the difference lies in interest. Even during my recruit days, I enjoyed reading the book on imaginary numbers by Nahin, which taught me a whole bunch of interesting things such as Green's theorem and contour integration. There is even the wedge product thing of dxdy = -dydx which I have yet to understand. Online sources don't explain with clarity like textbooks do. But I have little interest in reading stuff like thermodynamics and game theory (maybe a bit more of this but the author of the mathematical game theory book doesn't explain his formulas properly). Coupled with the need to do SAT practices, I hardly bother to read these books after a "tiring" (not really physical but it's annoying to wake up early) day of work.While I am still wondering if my choice to study Chemical Engineering is right, I can hardly tell that choosing mathematics would be better. No lecturer would bother to explain the ideas properly. Thus, I would probably be learning facts as magic rules rather than assessing them critically.

There's something that has been bugging after I have left school. Where did my ardour disappear to? Back then, I had to wake up early, attend lessons/CCA, leaving school at 7 and reaching home at 8.30. There were no complaints, just a conviction that everything was worthwhile. In retrospect, some additional things made a significant difference, while others didn't. It's perhaps due to a realization after watching "The Girl in a Pinafore", that I've sacrificed way too much, for a future that I never wanted. Yes, I had my egoism and grabbed whatever opportunities that were placed before me (and weren't given to the potential president scholars), but I now feel that I've been digging into a bottomless pit. There is no end to the amount of academic accolades that one can achieve, but an end to the amount of satisfaction that the achiever obtains. (Law of diminishing marginal returns XD) Perhaps I've been around smart people too often, that I see that people's lives somehow end after education. (Those esteemed gods that make it into the Ivy League somehow end up as teachers)

It is perhaps because I foresee this future that I want to seek a new path in life. I don't want my life to end here. But now that I'm given so much time, and yet still doing so little. Would I ever find something that would revive my ardour that once had such a magnificent blaze?

Sunday, June 9, 2013

人生は涙がなければ値を失うかな。

Monday, April 15, 2013

Back to otaku days ~~~